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JUNE 2019
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Welcome to the Ryde Eastwood Local Child Care & Services Directory newsletter.
This month we welcome
read all about these great services below.
Be sure to check out all our Detailed Listings to find all the information you need to make the right choice for you and your family when selecting child care.
This month our parent's resource is about Tantrums! Tantrums and negativity are a common behaviour during the toddler period as they learn to control their world. Nevertheless, these behaviours can be exhausting and frustrating for parents we hope this gives you some useful strategies.
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FEATURED SERVICES
 Active Kids Ermington is committed to developing your child’s love of learning and providing the highest level of care and education to all children and families. We pride ourselves in providing our children with the tools to confidently learn and grow from 8 weeks to 6 years of age.
For 25 years Active Kids Group has been providing quality care.
- Guided by the Early Years Learning Framework Pedagogy
- Kindyhub App that allows families to connect with educators and children via a safe online portal
- Learn & Grow Program (language fitness, dance and drama)
- Fresh, healthy and nutritious meals careful prepared by our in-house chefs
- Transition to school program
- Ongoing support and educational workshops for families and educators
- A team of qualified, passionate, dedicated and inspiring educators
Book your tour today or to see detailed information on our service please use this link Active Kids Group
 North Rocks Community (Uniting) Church Preschool has offered families a supportive and creative learning environment for over 45 years. The Preschool aims to nurture and provide quality care and learning opportunities for children within the Christian tradition. We are proud to have been accredited with a rating of Exceeding the National Quality standard for provision of early childhood education.
We are a non-profit organisation formed and operated by parents, church members and experienced staff. Our exciting and creative curriculum is child-directed, hands-on, developmentally challenging and fun. We aim to provide individualised attention, a safe environment, and many opportunities for creative expression.
The Preschool has a unique bushland setting safely tucked away behind the church. The Preschool operates from 8.00am - 3.30pm and caters for up to 24 children daily between the ages of 3 and 5 years. Contact us for more information.
 International School Of Music- Ryde
ISM provides quality music education to all ages!
ISM's aim is to teach music as a language. The instruction is aurally based to maximise learning in young students, encouraging not only a love of music, but an understanding of music.
The concept of ISM courses is simple: what you hear, you sing; what you sing, you play;what you play, you read; what you read, you write.
"Jitterbugs Music" for 2yrs; "Little Beebopper Music" for 3 yr olds includes singing, music, games coordination development, etc.
"Pianorama" for 4-12years is group keyboard instruction, reading, aural and rhythmic skills developed simultaneously. Private tuition available. AMEB exams optional.
For more information contact us www.ismryde.com.au
 Frontrunner Learning Centres
" I can't do this... I am just too dumb!"
If your child is struggling at school in Maths, Reading, Writing or Homework we can help you.
Life-changing Tutoring Solutions. We focus on your child's motivation, confidence, anxiety, freeing them from the fear of failure, encouraging them to do their best and never give up and helping them to find the love of learning.
Book your free educational assessment with us. Over 21 years helping children get in front stay in front. www.frontrunnerlearningcentres.com.au or 1300 851 065
PARENT INFORMATION
Tantrums
Tantrums and negativity are a common behaviour during the toddler period as they learn to control their world. Nevertheless, these behaviours can be exhausting and frustrating for parents.
Reasons for Tantrums
- Difficulty telling parents and others what they need - not enough words to talk about their needs or emotions
- Frustration that they do not have the skills to do tasks others are doing
- Tiredness and hunger
- Difficulty controlling their emotions - quickly go from excitement to anger
- Fear - become scared when they lose control and do not know how to calm down
- Do not like to wait for things - as can only think of their own needs
- Habit - the toddler has learnt that if they have a tantrum they will get what they want
- Testing limits or rules - this is helping them learn about control and power
- Your toddler's temperament - some toddlers are easy going, others are shy or very active
- It is important to seek assistance if you are concerned about the number or intensity of the temper tantrums - occasionally temper tantrums can be due to more serious problems.
Things that make the situation worse
- Being tired (both you and your toddler)
- Being hungry
- Being too excited or overstimulated
- Being bored or under-stimulated
- Being unwell
- Being told no or don't all the time
- Being in a hurry.
Avoiding Tantrums
Whenever possible:
- have realistic expectations of your toddler's ability and needs
- anticipate and avoid (if possible) difficult situations or activities for your toddler when they are tired, hungry or unwell
- introduce new activities slowly and one at a time
- develop routines and rituals so your toddler has a feeling of control over their world
- limit the amount of activity and noise - have quiet times during the day
- use a distraction when your toddler is becoming upset or agitated e.g. look at that car what colour is it?
- provide your toddler with limited choices eg do you want milk or water
- always ask your toddler to do things using one command at a time, wait for the action to be completed before giving the next task e.g. come here ...... sit down ....... let me help you put your shoes on ....
- use positive language and praise - avoid saying 'no' all the time
- understand any stress your toddler may be experiencing eg the arrival of a new baby, being left in childcare
During a Tantrum
There are several strategies that can be used to help your toddler gain control of their emotions:
- Hold and rock your toddler while you use soothing words e.g. daddy is here you are safe. This method can assist your toddler calm down and feel safe. It may be safer for you to hold them on your lap facing outwards if they are kicking.
- Pretend to ignore, this can be difficult. You will need to ensure that your toddler won't hurt themselves during the tantrum eg take out of the bath, take out of shopping trolley or remove furniture. It is important that you stay calm, take some deep breaths and count to ten.
- Time out or putting your toddler in a safe place. If you are at home you can use time out for both you and your toddler to assist you gain control.
- Removing them from the situation this can be difficult as you will need to stop what you are doing and take your toddler to another area eg. move from one room to another.
Things that don't help
- Getting upset and yelling at your toddler - most parents feel guilty when they have lost control
- Giving lengthy reasons about why you wanted your toddler to do something or why you are upset - keep explanations simple
- Bribing your toddler to behave e.g. if you stop yelling I will give you a chocolate
- Physical punishments - shouting, slapping, namecalling or threats
The good news for parents is that as your toddler develops language and physical skills the number and severity of tantrums will reduce.
Remember each child is an individual and develops at their own pace.
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